1. Many
ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure: It is so
disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to
night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity
entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset if
it’s not how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television
channels?
2. Many
ladies of nowadays dislike cooking and doing home chores: Just because they
have been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of
women in a family. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a man to desire
to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than a
helper for himself?
3. Modern
fashion and craze for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love
and marriage: How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to
acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest mobile phones and ipads to the
detriment of her woman worth? How can a single lady maintain this lifestyle for
long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle? How do you expect a man from a
responsible family background, and who is in his right senses to propose marriage
to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to acquire costly
electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery, perfume name them. Of course, majority
of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but wouldn’t
want to propose marriage even if she is earning the money herself because her
expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to most responsible
serious-minded single men. Only men that are out to catch fun will be closely
attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal from them is
as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle.
4. Excessive
make-up turns most decent and serious-minded men off: If you have observed, you
will discover that most men dislike excessive make-up, and more don’t even like
it at all. Excessive make-up makes you look like an Egyptian Mummy. A slight
make-up is okay, but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded men. Unless you
are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.
5.Cut Down
Your Participation in social network sites: If possible, limit your use of
facebook and twitter accounts because they may be doing you more harm than
good, but you wouldn’t know until you hit 35 years plus and still single and
searching. No man would want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network
site to another because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be
unfaithful lady, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you to have a thousands
of friends on facebook, same on twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM,
badoo, eskimi, and you are not a celebrity?
6. Stop
Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose
marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious
calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will
likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
7. You Don’t
Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating: Because your best
friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married
her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping
yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince
him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving
him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend,
helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual
support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and
problems to be solved.
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